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I've always held to the fact that if you search and search for something, you won't find it. If you allow yourself to concentrate on other things, what you are looking for will find you.

Rip out my heart and serve it on a platter, will ya? JK... And yeah, it's hard to grab onto love and keep it. And with this whole notion, this idea of Love also goes another way... Since love is so fragile, once you grasp it, it crumbles... If you look at it directly, it blows away like the wind. And once you realize it's right next to you, it's gone. So there's no real way of winning cuz once you're happy to have it, you're left empty and alone.

God, I'm tragic.

"It comes only when you are unaware, doing something else."
I haven't looked for love in the last three years and I still here alone. They say love comes when you least expect it but I am starting to doubt it. It's like anything else, things won't magically happen if you just sit around and wish upon a star. I believe you have to be proactive sometimes a little aggresive and go out and get what you want.

But who knows. I feel a little tragic just like Mr. Secret.

You know that saying "Life happens!" Why can't love? :-)

Happy 4th July sweet man.

"Lookin' for love in all the wrong places; lookin' for love in too many faces, searchin' for signs, searchin' for traces of what I'm lookin' for." Wasn't that Johnny Lee from the "Urban Cowboy" soundtrack?

It sounds like a cliche, but you really have to get it goin' on with yourself before you can love someone else. Someone once told me that you can love people freely that you're not attracted to until they decide they are attracted to you. I can see the truth in that, but it's a very small perspective.

We live in an instant now society with people jumping up and down in front of microwaves, screaming, "HURRY!" Many beginning their journey toward future relationships with masturbation, which is pretty instant gratification for a 13-year-old boy, but also Pavlovs us into thinking that sex/lust/desire is love, which it is not. Sex is typically loud and gaudy like Star Jones Reynolds, while love is the soft whisper of Mia Farrow caring for a malnourished child on an UNICEF commercial.

By the way, I love "I Could Be Happy."

Yea, sometimes it's best to not actively search for love. It usually would find you when you're not looking for it.

Ya know what's funny? Well other reason I wanted to be back stateside was so it'll be easier to meet guys, but now that I'm here, I haven't even bothered much. In Japan, I met up with a new guy every week at one point. Who knows, one of them might have blossomed into something.

Like Cesar said though, sometimes we can't just sit around and expecting something out of it. You gotta cause a ripple sometimes to get things in motion.

Have a great week!
Mann, you got me thinking again grrrrrr.
Why does the US have to be so big? All these lonely and beautiful people..*sigh

One has to be open to the idea of 'being with someone' in order to have an[y] intimate relationship to flourish. You're right Kris, it's the 'ripple' that sets things in motion, but I believe it's the ripple that comes from the inside, not out.

Yay Jef, that's the song I was thinking of. I didn't know who that particular version/artist was so I just randomly Googled it - hense Waylon Jennings! haha. Thanks for the info.

Happy 4th!!

Love is like sunshine... you don't really see it until it shines on something.

I believe in love. It is like the Parsi reading I was doing that says: Faith is belief in the unknown and belief is the faith of that which is known.

I couldn't agree more Robert. Hope you had a good day yesterday. Canada Day here was pretty uneventful but very nice...

Happy belated Independence Day, Robert! =)